Valentte Weekly
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How to Host the Perfec...
As the days grow warmer, the evenings stretch out, and daffodils begin to bloom, spring offers the p...
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The Feeling Of Adventure
Summer is the perfect opportunity to go out more and explore, go to places you haven’t been before, ...
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Overcoming Fear
I have always struggled with the fear of the unknown. I am starting to feel the anxiety building up ...
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Event you don’t want to miss
We had such a great time attending the Tatton RHS Flower Show as exhibitors over the years. It is a ...
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A Time for Connection
Summer offers ample opportunities to connect with loved ones, from family vacations and reunions wit...
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And Breathe…
Amidst the excitement, summer also offers a chance to slow down and relax. Work life balance can ver...
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Hard Work
For the last few years, Justina and I have been reading articles, watching videos, and studying onli...
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Lights, Camera, Action
Justina and I have started shooting videos to use for Instagram, promotions, and Facebook ads...
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Quiet Luxury
If you want a calmer, relaxing, spa-like home, consider bringing in elements of the ‘Quiet Luxury’ t...
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Low-Impact Exercise. H...
A new trend has appeared in women’s fitness that will transform the way you think about fitness and ...
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Coping with Anxiety: F...
Do you ever find yourself lying awake at night, worrying about the day ahead? Perhaps that tricky co...
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Food is Fuel How to Ea...
Do you ever skip meals because you simply don’t have time to eat? Or find yourself choosing less-tha...
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Brighter Days
With the cold, dark days of winter behind us, spring is finally in the air. At last, we can peel of...
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A Restful Night’s Sleep
There’s nothing worse than sleep deprivation. Whether it’s struggling to drop off, waking up in the ...
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The Get Away
Dreaming of fine white sand and clear blue water? Us too! We love our work, but there’s nothing like...
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The Power of Essential Oils
When it comes to choosing products for our homes and bodies, essential oils encapsulate much of what...
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Saying Yes
Over the last few months, I have become intrigued by stories of people giving up their mobile phones...
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Get ready…Blackberry p...
Whilst out on a walk in late August, you might be lucky enough to stumble across a bush brimming wit...
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The Hum of Bees is the...
Seeing bees gliding across the garden is something to be very excited about this Summer as they are ...
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Billy’s Adventures
Meet a beloved member of our Valentte family - Billy the Cockapoo! Here on Gate Farm we are all anim...
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Summer at Gate Farm
The heart of our small, authentic business is hidden in the rural county of Cheshire on Gate Farm, w...
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The Inspiration Behind...
There is a story behind every scent at Valentte. Our biggest inspiration has always been nature, whi...
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Working Hard and Seizi...
At the start of Valentte’s journey, it was just the two of us. We couldn’t borrow money. We didn’t h...
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The Power of Scent
Scents are incredibly powerful - they can make you feel a particular way, remind you of a certain pl...
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A Journey Fueled by Pe...
The Valentte family has somewhat expanded over the years. 10 years ago, we were a team of two, worki...
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Perseverance and Ambition
I still remember challenging times where it would have been easy to give up, but we stayed determine...
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Our Dream Became A Reality
It seems like only yesterday we lived in London working full-time jobs, spending any free time we ha...
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It Seems Like Yesterday
It seems like yesterday we lived in London working full-time jobs, spending any free time we had han...
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Challenging Times
I still remember challenging times where it would have been easy to give up, but we stayed determine...
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A Journey Underpinned by Hard Work
The Valentte family has somewhat expanded over the years. 10 years ago, we were a team of two, worki...
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First Home
When I was pitched this amazing ‘once-in-a-lifetime opportunity’ to attend the very first Christmas ...
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We Made it!
It was August 2011, and Luke and I were busy juggling full-time jobs and maintaining our growing hob...
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Consistency, Persisten...
When we first started, I had to show up at the Greenwich market on scheduled days; otherwise, our sp...
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Journey to Success
After the victory of our trial day at Greenwich market (where we sold a grand total of one bath fizz...
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Ten Years in the Making
Ten years ago, on a cold February morning, Luke and I loaded our car with baskets of freshly made na...
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Thinking Time
Over the last few months, I have become intrigued by stories of people giving up their mobile phones...
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Heady Days
I’m in London this week for the London Fashion Weekend event at Bloomsbury Square, it’s a new show f...
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The Eternal Optimist
One of my aims for 2020 is to improve the visual look of our products. This goal involves a move awa...
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Life Lessons
Last weekend the squirrel and I were at the Barbican for a two-day event called Life Lessons put on ...
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Trombone Oil
I have an app on my phone called Feedly, which I use to follow and read a variety of blogs. Most of ...
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Accountability Mirror
This morning, like almost every other, I got up early and listened to motivational speakers on YouTu...
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Healing the Mind
A friend of mine is going through a tough time. Yesterday we talked about the healing process after ...
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The Plan
I spent yesterday afternoon at the Rugby, watching Worcester Warriors play Wasps. My partner (the sq...
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Keeping It Simple
It’s been months since I last wrote this blog. It’s not easy to begin again, to pick up an old habit...
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Running Away
I love listening to Toy Robbins speak and hope one day to hear him in person. He talks with clarity ...
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Headphones On
I’m loving my new cycling turbo, a Wahoo Kickr, and have been using it in the caravan. This week I’m...
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Endorphins
I began writing this morning and realised the last entry was three weeks ago. I can’t believe how qu...
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Making Comparisons
I’m in Harrogate for the UK Grand Sale taking place on the showground. Writing this post in the cara...
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Looking Forward
I’m back in Nantwich for a few days going over our production plans for Christmas as you can imagine...
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Shades of Grey
I’m still in Malvern, and the clouds have come down, hiding the top of the hills. Looking at the map...
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Malvern Hills
I’m in Malvern for the Autumn Flower Show, and yesterday evening, I walked in the hills overlooking ...
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Making Mistakes
Last week I had a chat with a friend who runs a large and successful business. They exhibit at shows...
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The Dark Side
On the Today program this morning I caught the tail end of an interview with Brad Smith, the preside...
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Today, not tomorrow
I arrived at Blenheim Palace yesterday, ready for the horse trials which start on Thursday. Alone, d...
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Toxic People
Last week I spent three days trading the Handmade Fair at Hampton Court. It's our fourth year at thi...
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The Magic Yes
Yesterday I commiserated with a friend on the phone as she recounted a recent job interview for her ...
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Working On One Leg
I have just returned from Burghley Horse Trials after four incredible days. On Thursday we had our h...
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Hitting Snooze
We use GrooveHQ to manage all our business email. It’s an excellent service from a fantastic company...
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Your Masterpiece
I’m at Chatsworth ready for their Country Show which starts on Friday. The house is stunning, and I ...
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On The Edge
I have had a busy few days at Carfest South, before leaving Jade to manage things over the weekend. ...
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The Captain
You are the captain of your ship, and the enemy is bearing down on you. It is your responsibility to...
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Age Old Problem
Are you working on your dream? Can you see it up ahead? Are you toiling away at the coalface, thinki...
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20 Mile March
In the book “Great by Choice” by Jim Collins, the author compares “10X” companies with a direct comp...
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15 Minutes
I’m at Southport flower show, and it’s raining again. Feels like it hasn’t stopped for days. The noi...
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Why Wait!
I’m at Southport Flower Show this week, it's windy and like Lowther last week, very wet, but this ti...
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Bad News
Life is full of surprise event that can easily throw you off course. You have made a plan; you have ...
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Wet Days
I’m at the Lowther show in Cumbria and boy is it wet! The craft marquee has a small river running th...
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Attempt #2 Honister Pass
Today I have been cycling in the Lake District again. I took the same route as yesterday but this ti...
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Freedom
I arrived in the Lake District today for a few days of cycling before going on to the Lowther Show a...
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Big Decisions or Tiny Choices
Every waking moment you are making choices. From the food you eat to the clothes you wear and the pe...
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The Loneliness Taboo
Over the last couple of months, I have watched with great pleasure as a close friend has begun to le...
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The Last Minute
I arrived at Blenheim Palace yesterday in preparation for Countryfile Live which starts on Thursday....
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Bat Out Of Hell
I remember the first company car my Father ever received; it was a brand-new Rover with electric win...
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We’re Celebrating Today!
I’m celebrating a milestone today! This post is the 100th I have written since starting the blog in ...
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Facing Problems
I’m back under the giant tepee at Tatton Park Flower Show, watching the rain come down. Fingers cros...
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Footsteps
I’m writing today's blog post under a giant tepee at Tatton Park Flower Show; sadly it’s not as warm...
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Debt Problems
It’s been a busy few days. I left the Great Yorkshire Show on Friday morning and drove to Cirenceste...
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Old Wolves!
On Monday I arrived at the Great Yorkshire Show, tired, but very happy after an exceptionally busy H...
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Simple Joys
I drove back from Hampton Court Flower show yesterday and was lucky enough to listen to a program on...
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Butterflies
I arrived in London yesterday to set the stand up for RHS Hampton Court Flower Show. It’s one of my ...
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Free Samples
Today’s blog post is about the free sample requests and to address the increasing customer anger we ...
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Stop Digging!
Some months ago, I decided to reduce the number of shows we do and the number of staff on our stand....
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Self Talk
This week I’m staying a beautiful campsite on a working farm, just outside Edinburgh for the Royal H...
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No Regrets
I’m back in Nantwich for 48 hours before heading up to Scotland for the Royal Highland Show. The tea...
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Preparation
I woke up this morning to photos from our landlord at Gate Farm, where we make all the stock, showin...
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Parkland Dreams
Yesterday I moved north, from Bramham Horse Trials to Ripley Castle where we are exhibiting with UK ...
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Moral Dilemma
Over the weekend, I had a long conversation with a friend whose son is battling an addiction to drug...
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Angel of the North
I arrived at Bramham Horse Trials yesterday having just finished Gardening Scotland in Edinburgh. I ...
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Rose Tinted Glasses
I have been up in Glasgow for the last week exhibiting at the Ideal Home Show, and today I’m off to ...
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The One Thing
I drove up to Scotland yesterday as this week I’m exhibiting at the Ideal Home Show in Glasgow. Duri...
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Good Enough
I’m back in Nantwich for a couple of days before heading off to the Ideal Home Show - Scotland. It’s...
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Looking Back
I arrived at the Devon County Showground yesterday, a couple of days early so that I can do some cyc...
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Soul Searching
Over the last couple of weeks, I have been having some very uncomfortable conversations with people ...
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Microadventures
I’m in Malvern For the RHS Flower Show, I have been to the showground many times and admired the bea...
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Insanity
It’s often said that the definition of insanity is doing the same thing repeatedly and expecting a d...
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Setting Priorities
I have been thinking about how I spend my time in a typical week and asking myself whether I’m using...
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Scar Tissue
Yesterday, I spent time with a friend who is also trading at Badminton Horse Trials. We both have si...
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Nourishment
I bought a beautiful white orchid for the caravan about six weeks ago. I remember reading somewhere ...
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Mediocre
I’m enjoying an autobiography on Elon Musk, the founder of PayPal and the driving force behind Space...
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Worry
Yesterday, I moved the caravan from Sudeley Castle to Badminton Horse Trials. This morning, I’m look...
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My Scary 12-Hours of Fraud
This week I had an alarming experience when five of my credit cards, along with one of Justina’s wer...
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Emotional Reaction
Last week I exploded a perfectly decent working relationship with a tradesman who has done regular, ...
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Motivational Matters
I have written many times before about my morning routine. I follow the same rituals, doing the same...
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Deep Work
Two days ago, I took the somewhat drastic step of disabling the email functionality on my mobile and...
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Flexible Working
My mother was one of the “Ten Pound Poms” who emigrated to Australia in the early 1960s where she en...
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The Destination
Some days ago, I replied to a comment made by Sade on an earlier blog post “The Day I Gave Up”. She ...
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Will Power
This year is the 20th anniversary of me stopping gambling and drinking. I didn’t stop overnight. I t...
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Eureka Moments
Yesterday I had one of those rare days when I learnt something life-changing. A day I believe I will...
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Milestones
I remember the first time our glass order for the candles and diffusers came on a pallet. We made st...
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Unloading During a Setback
I have been thinking today about how we cope emotionally when things are not going well. Has your p...
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Multitasking
I have just finished reading “Leaders Eat Last by Simon Sinek.” He explores leadership, and one stor...
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Eye Contact
All of us are selling, every moment of every day. It doesn’t matter if your job title doesn’t contai...
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Choosing Your Team
I just finished reading Shoe Dog, the autobiography of Steve Knight who founded Nike. It's an inspir...
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Is This What Hard Looks Like?
I have had a hectic ten days. We are exhibiting at the Ideal Home Show, and the website is flying. F...
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The Reset Button
What happens when you stumble? Are you like me and your good habits go out of the window? Today's vi...
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Big Challenges – Big Risks!
Our first show was the Ideal Home Show at Earls Court more than five years ago. Today's video is abo...
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Are You Putting Off So...
I arrived in Snowdonia on Friday, tired after a long week at work and once the caravan was set up, I...
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Mindless Refresh
I have been thinking about how I spend my time in a typical hour. In my mind, I spend the full hour ...
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I Can’t Concentrate!
Read more books! Since I was young, this message has been drummed into me. But about ten years ago s...
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Focus On One Thing
I spent yesterday afternoon at the Ideal Home Show as we have two stands there. It’s a massive show ...
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Life is Full of Compromises
Life is full of compromises. I remember this during the week when we received an email from a custom...
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Unbelievable Luck
Sometimes truly amazing, unbelievable things happen. We work away, unrecognised and unrewarded and t...
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Past Failures
If I think back over my life, there are some events that are seared into my memory. I’m not thinking...
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Shows in 2019
The show world is a strange community of misfits and outcasts. I see the same faces each week in dif...
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Redbull & Takeaways
I have always struggled with my weight, it yo-yo’s dramatically, and my weight range in my adult lif...
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The Dark Side of Extreme Adventure
I’m writing this post on the 4th March 2019, seven days after the British climber Tom Ballard went m...
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Don’t Show Me Your CV
I distrust CV's. I find them full of waffle, and big statements. I can’t see the real person behind ...
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New Morning Routine
Are you hungry for success but can’t quite make it happen? Are your dreams and goals not getting any...
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It’s Possible!
We carry our dreams in our rucksacks up the mountain of life. Sometimes we share our dreams, but mor...
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Change!
I have been thinking a lot about change over the last few months. It started on a walking trip in th...
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Burning the Midnight Oil
I realised I was wasting a lot of time in the evening. I would get home from work, tired and flop in...
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The Valentte Adventure Fund
I have been very lucky throughout my life to spend time in the mountains. We were encouraged at scho...
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What does amazing look like?
If I close my eyes, it’s easy to imagine what my dream holiday looks like. Close them again, and it’...
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1000, 2000, 3000, 4000...
Earlier this week I received a lovely email from Jenny Appleby expressing her positive feedback for ...
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Masters Think Like Beginners
I have just installed Feedly on my phone. It’s a pared down blog-feed-reader for easy content consum...
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Skinny Dipping
I try very hard not to care about what other people think about me. But it’s hard when I read their ...
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No Zen Here!
All companies have systems and ways of doing things. I understand they are important in making the b...
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Winter
We had a couple of beautiful warm days. It felt like spring had come early. But today looking out of...
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The Evening Meal
Your tired, it’s been a long day. You arrive home late for supper. What do you talk about while you ...
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The Backup Plan
Have a backup plan! Sounds like sensible advice that I would usually follow. Listening to a program ...
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The Day I Gave Up
Each morning in the shower I think about my goals. I do the same while I’m driving. I think about it...
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The Golden Hour
For as long as I can remember my working day started the same way. Sat at my desk, I would look thro...
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Professionals
Last summer at the Nantwich Show, I spent 15 minutes watching a craftsman handmake a pair of clogs. ...
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Be The Hero
I have been wrestling with a decision, tossing it over and over in my mind. Playing out the possible...
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The First Day
Are you thinking about starting your own business? Are you feeling a bit scared? We were too. Don’t ...
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Will People Remember?
Will people remember when I’m gone? Will they notice my passing? Am I leaving something worthwhile o...
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Progress
In my mid-thirties I began to do a lot of cycling. When I mean a lot, think of Forest Gump and his r...
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Happiness
I frequently find myself in quiet moments reflecting on my happiness. Is my life going the way that ...
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Gutted! I Broke a 37-Day Good Habit
Regular readers will know that I have made a personal commitment to “become the kind of person who d...
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Novice, Intermediate or Advanced?
I’m spending a couple of days hill-walking with my brother in Snowdonia. He reminded me about a go-k...
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Judgement
The mountains are great teachers. They care nothing about our ambitions or goals. Each time we ventu...
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Will Smith and the Lumberjack
The hardest part of any journey is the first few steps. Out hill-walking I often find myself overwhe...
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Smell My Hands Grandma!
Like many companies, here at Valentte we actively encourage our customers to write reviews. I read e...
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Tolerating Problems
Sometimes I find myself wondering how to respond to customer complaints. Dealing with the individual...
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Unknown Horrors
Hardly a day goes by without me feeling one or more of these fearful emotions. I imagine you have fo...
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Is Life Getting In The Way?
Over Christmas, I have found myself thinking about the quality of my relationships. Particularly tho...
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The Two-Minute Habit
Sometimes I find myself struggling to start a task. I’m overwhelmed and daunted. I can see the desti...
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Your £37000 Muffin
I’m a big coffee fan — strong, black double expressos with no sugar. Every morning I sit down at my ...
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Hitting Rock Bottom
2019 is the 20th anniversary of me stopping drinking and gambling. Back in 1999, I was 25, newly mar...
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Is Perfectionism Getti...
I love listening to motivational speakers on YouTube. I heard one tell a story, about a group of pho...
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Smell What Sells
I love Alan Sugar’s gruff paternal manner in the BBC Apprentice show. They used to have an episode e...
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Are You Prepared for t...
I remember reading an old interview with Michael Caine. He discussed his early career and how succes...
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Stop Setting Goals and Targets
I have always set goals. Endless goals and targets. Throughout my life. For work, for the gym, for m...
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Are You Trying or Committed
I sometimes find myself questioning the responses I give to others when they make a request. I’m not...
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Let’s make a dif...
We believe that our homes should contain beautiful, natural and organic products. Free from the chem...
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Climate Change 10 Year Challenge
In 1990 I was lucky enough to spend eight weeks in North East Greenland with the British Schools Exp...
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Resetting The Room
Do you remember the last time you had to find something? It was important. It was urgent. You just h...
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Royal Highland Nightmare
Do you find it hard to make changes? Do you find reasons for not implementing the changes you need t...
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Service Station Life
Each year I visit a lot of motorway service stations. Last year I drove just over 40,000 miles. Sitt...
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That Niggling Feeling
Mandy is our candlemaker. She came to me and asked if I would come and examine a batch of wicks that...
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The Value Of Experience
One of the big changes you will see with Valentte products in 2019 is the phasing out of labels on o...
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Follow Luke around RHS...
Join us on our visit to the RHS Tatton Park Flower Show. Explore beautiful blooms and fresh floral d...

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